Anonymous asked:
I was dating a girl who was very mentally unstable for around ten months, I've been done with the relationship for the past six months because she became emotionally abusive. I tolerated it for so long because I didn't want to push her over the edge, yadda yadda yadda. So recently she left for college and I broke it off with the abuser under the guise of "the distance" to preserve her feelings. She's flipping out anyway. Did I do the right thing?

I think you did. You were obviously not happy in this relationship and you always have to put your own feelings first. Maybe she is flipping out but you shouldn’t care about that. Do what you think that’s the best for you. You are important too, you shouldn’t let anyone push you around! x

Anonymous asked:
Me and this kid have liked each other for 6 months about and he's sent my friend a text telling her to tell me he loves me. But I've fallen in love with him and I want to tell him so how do I tell him that w/out it being award or anything?

I think you should go see him and just ask him about what he texted your friend. Ask him if it’s true and if he really means it. That way, he already said that he loves you first so you won’t feel weird by saying it too. Just make sure he says something about it first x 

Anonymous asked:
So I've had a crush on this guy since 7th grade and he had a crush on me too but there was always a reason we didn't go out, it was mostly my fault. But then in 9th grade I told him that I liked him and he told me he had feelings for me for a really long time. So we dated for 2 months and broke up because of summer break, we never saw each other. We are now juniors, going to the same school, and I still love him, he made me really happy and I trust him. What should I do?

Going to the same school is just the worst thing that can happen when you like someone. You are going to like him again, if you don’t already like him now. I think you just have to wait and see how he reacts to you. He probably still likes you as well, because you did date but you shouldn’t rush things. Just try getting along again and then see what happens. He knows you already so he wont be shy now to tell you if he has feelings x

Anonymous asked:
So I've been hanging out with this guy for over four months now. We have become really close, its only him & I hanging out. He doesn't hang with other girls I don't hang with other guys, which isn't a problem. (He is 23, I'm 18) anyway, he always let's me stay over his house, cuddles me, mucks around with me and makes me laugh, but I'm so scared to ask him what's going on between him & I as we always say we are "friends" and I like him a lot but don't wanna ruin anything at all or get hurt again

It’s wrong to think that he just uses you, because I think that’s how you feel right now. You say that he’s not seeing any other girls so I guess he’s not thinking about you as just his friend. Maybe he already sees you as more but he just thinks that he doesn’t need to make that clear to you. So it’s really up to you to say something about it x

Anonymous asked:
I really like one of my guy friends.. He's really cute and flirts with me (I think!). How do I know how he feels about me? I get really sweet texts from him, but I don't know if he sends them to other girls as well.. I'm kinda average looking, nothing special. Should I just go for it? We're in the same class, will that be awkward? I need your help

If he says sweet things to you, then he must like you. I mean, if he’s one of your friends you must know if he’s like a player or something. And I guess you should just go for it because you are obviously already thinking about it x

Anonymous asked:
I've known this guy for almost a month and we started talking a lot and I like him a lot and he likes me a lot. he asked me out and I said yes but I think it's too soon but I don't want to end it because we like each other but like I said we've only known each other for a month...

If you think it’s too soon then it is! If he really likes you, he should give you all the time that you need. You don’t need to rush things if you don’t want to x

Anonymous asked:
Recently my best friend & I came out with our feelings for each other & I went over to her house a couple of times in these last few weeks & we ended up making out, great right? Except ever since, I'm always the one texting her, & she won't reply or if she does she doesn't engage in the conversation, & acts like she would rather not even be talking with me. She doesn't want to hang out very much anymore, & I don't know what to do, maybe I'm just being paranoid, but I just wanted to get advice...

I think you should just go to her house and talk to her in person. Ask her what’s wrong. It could be nothing to do with you but maybe there’s another problem. Don’t text her to ask what’s wrong. Let her know that you are there for her, take the first step and go to her x

Anonymous asked:
Me and my girlfriend of 5 years have just broken up. She wants nothing to do with me anymore but I just can't forget her. I text her and her no reply ever. Any advice on how to get over long term relationships?x

Getting over someone is just something you can’t rush. Especially after a relationship that long. The only advice I have is to be positive about the future. Your life may seem ruined by now but eventually it will get better. I understand that you miss her and it’s not a shame to think about her, you loved each other. If she doesn’t want to talk to you then you shouldn’t talk to her either. It just makes you more worried about her feelings and about yourself. Don’t listen to people who say that you have to be over her as soon as possible. That’s bullshit, take your time for it, it’s the only way you can really end this chapter in your life x

Anonymous asked:
There is this girl I really like from class, every time I'm around her my heart rate spikes, adrenalin starts pumping and I get 'the butterflies'. Problem is, I'm too afraid to talk to her. <b>Sometimes</b> I may be able to muster up the courage to say Hi or something like that, but not much else. I really want to be able to talk to her, because I really like her, I just seize up whenever I do. I'm not normally like this around girls I'm not attracted to i.e colleagues, its just her. Please help

If she’s in your class then school is a good thing to talk about. It’s something you both know about and it doesn’t show her you have feelings for her. Try to sit close to her so you can talk during class. And be friendly to her, you don’t need to give her compliments because I think you’re a bit shy when it comes to her. Just show her that you know how to be a gentleman, you will be noticed by her for sure x

Anonymous asked:
So this guy says he likes me and always compliments my ass. He said his favorite part on a girl are her boobs. I was snapchatting him and we were both being really flirty. I kept pulling my bra/shirt down a little bit at a time until my nipple was almost showing and he never said anything about them. He just kept trying to tell me that lax is better than soccer while I was trying to win him over and turn him on. I feel like he doesn't like me. Help?

First of all, this guy should ne more respectful. If he wants to seduce a girl or make it clear that he likes her, talking about her boobs and ass isn’t the right way. You shouldn’t do these things for him . I get that you like him but he doesn’t show much respect by wanting these things from a girl. If he doesn’t like you for who you are then you shouldn’t give him what he wants. If you like him, you should try to have an actual conversation with him. And if he starts talking about your ass or if he asks you to do something you don’t want, just tell him to be a man and to treat a girl with respect! x

Anonymous asked:
I recently got out of a relationship with a guy & we were together for such a long time & I honestly was in love with him, so hard. he was & still is, &, probably ever will be, the best thing that has ever happened to me. he got a girlfriend a few days later & didn't even care. he was not upset at all when we broke up. I just don't get how he can throw me away like that, it makes me feel like he never loved me or cared at all & that breaks my heart more than it already is.

I guess he felt bad in this relationship for a longer time because you can’t just walk away from something like that. But honestly, he’s a jerk for not telling you about his feelings. You two could have worked on things together or you could have accepted why he didn’t want the relationship any longer. If he wants to be with this other girl then let him be with her. Show him that you don’t care about him anymore. You’re too good to worry about someone who treats you like that! x

Anonymous asked:
Would you count this as a good protective or bad protective? The kid I like likes me back and he's protective over me in guess. Idk if that's a good word to describe this but he makes sure I'm not doing anything with any other guy. He gets jealous when I called a guy cute. But then he asked me if anybody liked me and then he said if anybody did he would punch them. But he said he was joking in a very serious voice.... So what would you say to this?

I would ask him if he really likes you. I think being jealous is cute up to a certain point. You shouldn’t feel like you have no freedom anymore, you still have the right to do what you want. You should tell him this. If he wants to be with you, okay, be together because you like him and he likes you. But don’t do this if you already feel like your being controlled by him because it will only get worse if you don’t say anything about it x

Anonymous asked:
over the last 7 months I have known this guy likes me and he knows I like him,he is my cousins best friend (both 23 I 18)both too awkward to talk to each other sober even text and much to my cousins effort trying to get us together just too shy.on nights out when we've both been drinking he has talked to me and tried to make a move but i had never kissed anyone before so i would shy away until 2 weeks ago,and last week, i am crazy for him and apparently he is for me. how can we be less shy?help

I think you should just be aware of the fact that he likes you too. He wants to be with you so there is no reason to be scared or shy. He tried to make a move so now it’s up to you to do something because he’s now insecure about that and he wants you to show him how you feel. Just think about him and wanting him should be more important than your shyness x

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