Basically, someone I've sort of liked for a while asked me out and I said yes. Only thing is, now that I've accepted, I don't know if I actually want to be with him any more. We hardly talk or see each other, and now I feel like I said yes too quickly and that maybe I should've thought about it for longer. I don't know whether to leave it and see where the relationship goes, and then decide at a later date, or if I should end it now. I'm so unsure of myself right now, idk what to do.
If you don’t want to be with him, don’t. It’s your choice! I understand that maybe your feelings aren’t that strong anymore now that he knows that you like him too. For some people are the moments before your crush knows about it, the best, because it’s more exciting to like someone without them knowing it. If you don’t want to be with this guy, tell him. Maybe he will find it weird but if he really likes you, he should respect that. But think about it one more time, you’ve liked this guy for some time so the feelings can’t be completely gone x
So I've been dating a guy since February 2013. We have a long distance relationship and now he rarely answers my messages on Facebook, yahoo and on AIM. I'm freaking out.
Ask him what’s wrong, maybe something happened to him or to someone he knows well. Try to get in touch with him, call him x
ok so, there's this guy I like who's super rad and seems pretty nice. he's in the grade above me, which isn't a problem but I don't have any classes with him so it'd be hard to get to know him. but we're both really good friends with this one teacher at our school so sometimes the three of us will hang during lunch. but we've only spoken once or twice. he's really cool and we have a bunch in common but I don't know how to just talk to him. I'm awkward and shy so I can't just start a convo. help?
Maybe you could arrange a moment with this teacher with the three of you and afterwards you could start talking to him. Or start talking on Facebook to him about that teacher, it’s a good thing that you both know him/her. That’s definitely the thing you should use if you want to start talking to the guy you like. If you’re not a shy person you could talk to him in school, like ask him when he will go to that teacher again to hang out or something like that x
So theirs this boy and he's so hot and funny and weve been talking for like a year over text. we have like 4 classes together, but he doesnt talk to me in person? He doesnt really talk to any girls but like you'd think if he actually liked me he'd say something. I always catch him staring but that could mean nothing, you know. Idk I'm just a little confused if I even have a chance or if hes just bored when he texts me
It could be that he’s too shy to talk to you. If it really bothers you, you could start talking to him. The fact that he stares at you a lot means that you are special to him. He’s probably just afraid of your reaction when he would start talking to you in person x
ive liked this boy for quite a while now. ive been told by multiple people that he feels the same about me. i don't know if i should just take the jump and ask him, or if i should wait for him to come to me. what do you think? thanks :)
Well, I know that this is really hard. I kind of have the same thing going on. There’s this boy in my class and I really like him but I’m also too scared to tell him because I think that his friends will laugh at me or something like that. And I don’t want our friendship to be ruined because of me. So I get that you are afraid of telling him and I don’t think you should tell him. I mean, it depends, if you don’t know him that well and he’s just like a crush it’s okay to tell him. But if you know him better and you’re friends with him, it’s more difficult because there’s more to lose. If you really want to know, try talking to him about who he likes and stuff like that. You don’t have to ask him: hey do you like someone? Cause the chance that he says “yeah, you” is really small. But you could ask him what kind of girls he would fall for or what he likes in a girl for example. If you don’t want to ask this things, that’s fine too, you could try to make it obvious that you like him just by the things you do. Look into his eyes when he says something or smile at him when he walks by, it are subtle things but it works and he’ll notice you more. Good luck! x
I've been in a off and on relationship with this one guy who means a lot to me- I mean he was my first. Well he has a girl now but I still want him. With every girl he's been with, he's cheated on them with me. His mother just passed and I'm the only one who cares... His girl doesn't even do Hal I the shit I do for him. What should I do?? I'm tiered of him acting like he doesn't appreciate alla crap I do for him but I love him so much to let go of alla the memories, feelings, etc.
I understand you so well. I mean, this guy obviously likes you too and he cares about you cause otherwise he wouldn’t always come back to you. But you have to realize that he’s not giving you the feeling you need to receive from a guy. You should feel loved back by the person you love. And I don’t think you feel this way with him. I understand that you love him and you want to be with him. But the fact that your relationship goes on and off means that you both aren’t sure about this being the right thing. I think it goes like this: you see each other or start talking again and you both get feelings for each other, you get together but then after a while your relationship isn’t that good anymore and he leaves you for another girl, then he realizes that this other girl isn’t right for him too and he comes back to you. And I guess you want it to happen that after a while he will think that you are the one for him and never leave you again but I think that there has happened too much already. The fact that you two broke up all these times means that it’s not going to work out, how hard you even try. It’s just you who wants this relationship to work out, he doesn’t really give you this feeling back. If you still really want to be with him, you should definitely tell him that he should respect you and what you do for him more than he does right now. You deserve better! x
So I inbox this boy I like on Facebook and telling him that I think he is cute, I like him and we should get to know each other. He never reply back to me and the thingy said seen. Does it mean that he doesn't like me back?
It could mean that he doesn’t like you. And I don’t think you should keep talking to him, if he doesn’t answer your messages. Sometimes, you like someone and they don’t like you back. That’s the way life is, you should try to get over it. He’s not worth it for you to keep on thinking about him x
I like this boy for 2 years.He is white and I'm black. I really like him and I want to tell him but I'm a shy person and I even write a letter to give him but I can't because I think he will laugh at me but everyone say no he won't. What should I do?
If you really like him you should tell him. I know that’s like the hardest thing to do in the world but if you like someone and you’re too scared to tell them it only gets worse and worse. Maybe a letter isn’t the best way to tell him but if that’s the best way for you to express your feelings, go ahead x
Do you believe writing to a boy you had crush on for one year and half and telling him how you feel is such a good idea? He is such a nice guy and I want him to like me too
Writing about your feelings is a good thing but you should think about it. He could think that you’re too scared or shy to tell him in person. And I don’t think you want that? I think the best way to make it clear to someone that you like them is to just tell them. If it’s been for so long that you’ve liked him, there’s nothing to lose I guess? x
I've like this guy for a year now. He is such a nice person in and out. I have never talk to him faced to face and talked to him once on fb. I really want to tell him I like him but I'm too nervous and shy to. He is also single what should I do?
I think you should talk to him in person before you tell him about your feelings. Because I get that you like him and that’s really possible even without talking to him in person but he could find it weird. So try to hang out with him or go somewhere together and then you could tell him x