I have a crush on a guy named, Freyner, he is in Year 10 and I'm in Year 9. I haven't talked to him because I don't have the courage to go talk to him. I think he has noticed me around school because sometimes he will stare at me and I'll stare at him, awkwardly. Also, he awkwardly smiles at me, I don't know if he thinks he recognizes me because I have a sister in Year 11 that talks to him and we kind of look the same. What should I do, to get him to talk to me?
You should just smile when you catch him looking at you. You don’t need to take the first step, let him do it. He doesn’t think that you are your sister, boys are not stupid. He knows you’re someone else. If it really annoys you, you could add him on Facebook and like his pictures or something like that, so he notices you. But I think you should try to walk past him in school and see how he reacts. Good luck! x
I've been dating this guy for 6 months, and since last week he's been contemplating whether or not to "shut me out completely" just because I've been "dramatic" for the past few months. I can't understand why he wouldn't give me the chance to get my shit together, or try to accept that flaw I have. I've already accepted his selfishness and his asshole-ish attitude. I really love this guy, despite his flaws. So why can't he accept mine?
I think you should tell him this. Everyone has their own flaws and problems, like you say. It’s up to him to respect this. And if he doesn’t respect you, you shouldn’t even give him attention anymore. If he’s that rude to you to say that you should be less dramatic instead of helping you with your problems, then he doesn’t deserve to be with you in the first place x
I like this guy named Chris, we have known each other for 3 years and are really close friends. I've liked him for almost 2 years but the problem is he likes someone else and once, his best friend thought we were dating and he said he wouldn't cause I'm 2 years younger than him. I trust him with almost every secret I have but he thinks I like another guy named Dean and I seriously don't know what to do Help? (Please)
I don’t think he really cares about your age. When you’re younger, it can be weird when there is an age difference but when you get older, it’s not that important anymore. So don’t worry about that! But you could aks him things about this girl you think he likes. Maybe he just says that to make it less “suspicious” that he hangs out with you? (When a boy and girlspend time together a lot, others immediately think that they’re dating or that they like each other) And tell him that you don’t like this Dean. You want him to tell the truth to you too so you shouldn’t lie to him x
I dont usually do this but i need some advice. I'm inlove with a guy (we've been together for about 4 years now) and we are crazy yet SO wrong for each other. My family will never accept him and his would never accept me as we are from totally different cultures .. What should i do?
The fact that you’ve been together for 4 years means that all these things didn’t bother you before. So I don’t know why you think it’s bad now. You really love each other and I think that’s the most important thing. If your family doesn’t like him, don’t talk about him. If you keep on talking about him, they’ll get annoyed about it and they will get even more upset about your relationship. When you’re still together after a while, your family will realize that they should be happy for you x
I have a crush on this guy named Alan,he dosent speak to me like he used to do in the last grade,this year he dosent speak to me at all and speaks to everyone else but me,I love him,but yet I feel like giving up on loving him if it's not worth it... (Sorry for my spelling I'm not that good at English love)
Ask him if he’s mad at you or if there is something wrong. It’s not normal that he doesn’t speak to you anymore without a good reason. You could tell him that you like him, if he doesn’t already know. But if he keeps on ignoring you, he’s not really worth it x
I like this boy named Payton,he doesn't seem to admit to liking me bc he always says maybe or I dunno to my friends,should I give up or continue fighting for him,I love him.
Maybe you should stop giving him attention for a little while. He knows that you like him and he doesn’t seem to care about it. Don’t let your friends talk about you to him because then he knows that you still think about him. You have done enough already, it’s now his turn to make a move x
Basically, someone I've sort of liked for a while asked me out and I said yes. Only thing is, now that I've accepted, I don't know if I actually want to be with him any more. We hardly talk or see each other, and now I feel like I said yes too quickly and that maybe I should've thought about it for longer. I don't know whether to leave it and see where the relationship goes, and then decide at a later date, or if I should end it now. I'm so unsure of myself right now, idk what to do.
If you don’t want to be with him, don’t. It’s your choice! I understand that maybe your feelings aren’t that strong anymore now that he knows that you like him too. For some people are the moments before your crush knows about it, the best, because it’s more exciting to like someone without them knowing it. If you don’t want to be with this guy, tell him. Maybe he will find it weird but if he really likes you, he should respect that. But think about it one more time, you’ve liked this guy for some time so the feelings can’t be completely gone x
So I've been dating a guy since February 2013. We have a long distance relationship and now he rarely answers my messages on Facebook, yahoo and on AIM. I'm freaking out.
Ask him what’s wrong, maybe something happened to him or to someone he knows well. Try to get in touch with him, call him x