well , i am best mates with this lad jake, and i started to fall for him deeply hes on my mind every minute and seeing him for like 2 seconds makes me smile,we got really close we play fight,hold hands,play with hair and take pictures ect,hes in all my lessons and i cant stop thinking about him however he just told me he likes one of my close mates which killed me i smiled pretended that everything is fine but had to run of to toliet ,i cried and now the worst part is how can i get over him help
Well it’s his fault. He gave you all this signals that he liked you, and now he says that he likes someone else? But did he tell you who it was because if he didn’t tell you who it was, you could be the one that he likes. And if he doesn’t like you, he’s just stupid. Move on and show him that you can be happy without him. He’s not worth it that you cry for him x
Okay so there is this guy, I think I really like him but I don't know. We talk all the time and I guess we flirt from time to time. We have known each other for about 4 years now. His friend told me that he really likes me but he doesn't want to ask me yet cause he doesn't want to rush it. I want to say yes but my friend used to date him but that was a 4 years ago after we met. I don't know how she would react of I did date him. They don't talk or anything. What should I do?
Don’t worry about your friend. I mean, they don’t date anymore so she shouldn’t judge about his “new girlfriend”. Try to have a good conversation with him about your relationship. If you both like each other, you should take this chance to be together x
There's this amazing girl who asked me out over the summer. We dated but it just wasnt working because neither of us had publicly come out. She still has strong feelings for me and I don't go a day without wanting to be with her. We haven't been talking and she ignores me at school. I just want to talk to her.. would it be inappropriate if I kissed her? She has expressed how badly she would like to kiss me since a year ago but we just never had the right moment to. I don't want to force her. :/
I would try to talk things out with her. The fact that she ignores you means that she is either worried or that there is something wrong. Ask her if she still wants to be with you. Tell her that you still love her and if she loves you back, everything will be alright. But wait until she has admitted still having feelings for you, to kiss her x
Hey there's this girl, she is my best friend actually. I'm madly in love with here and she knows it, and last week she told me that she has also feelings for me but she doesn't want to take it to the next level to not ruin our strong friendship. But even though she keeps on grabbing my hand, touch me, being soo adorable and looking at me in a way it makes me melt. So I don't know what to think and what to do
She told you she has feeling for you too, but she doesn’t want to be in a relationship? That’s so confusing. Tell her that you understand she doesn’t want to risk your friendship. But that she can also lose a possible relationship, that could be the best one ever. She will always regret it if she loved you and didn’t do anything about it x
So there's this guy in my class and he's really nice and the first day in the class he gave me the biggest smile ever! And he sits in front of me and evertime he passes back papers he smiles and we talk and we always walk together after the class and he compliments be every now and them and today he moved his seat to sit next to me!! The only thing is that he's bi which has me reay confused because he's so cute and idkkkk help me plz what do think??
If he’s bi, then you could ask him if he likes a boy from your class. And see how he reacts, maybe he’ll tell you that he likes a girl more or something like that. But the fact that he smiles and talks to you, means that he likes you. In a romantic way or not, I don’t know that. So try to know more about his feelings, about what kind of girl/boy he would fall for x
I have dated this guy a couple years back and I have loved him ever since. We are best friends and I don't know what to do because it kills me inside. What should I do?
I understand how you feel. It must be so hard to be around him if you are still in love with him. And I understand that you cannot ignore your feelings because they are too strong. If I were you, I would tell him ‘cause this isn’t a normal crush. These feelings don’t go away after a couple of months. Just tell him that you still like him because I know that it is impossible to be around someone that you love, when they don’t know it. And if you have dated in the past and you are still friends now, that means that you really care about each other. So your friendship will also survive this if he doesn’t like you back. But don’t worry, it will be alright x
hi, im a girl and i met this boy named Brian about a month ago at the mall when i was with my friends, and ever since then he hasent left my mind! we text sometime and he flirts with me alot, me and my friend go to the mall every weekend to hang out with him and his friend. he even said he wanted to kiss me and do "things" with me.. all i know is that i really care about him but i dont know how he feels about me. what do you think i should do?
Well, you should be careful. I mean, he could be a player and hurt your feelings. But if you like him too, then why not be with him? And if he flirts with you and says he wants to kiss you, then he must have some feelings for you. Try to find out by asking his friend if he has ever talked about you to him. If he has, then he really likes you x